
Patrick Pilkington, left, of Fayetteville helps family friend Aaron Callahan, 11, center, and Pilkington's son, Jordan, 11, with the construction of an Advent wreath at St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Fayetteville. Members of the church gathered to make the traditional wreaths which mark the beginning of the Advent season, and of the Christian calendar. Each of four candles arranged in the wreath are lit weekly, one by one, until a fifth candle is lit on Christmas Eve and burned on Christmas Day.
I grew up Catholic. I was an altar boy with the white robes, communion wine and the ringing of the bells during the Miracle and everything. So we had Advent candles at home that we lit, though the invention of the fifth candle is a relatively new thing. We just had the standard four; one for every week. Dad was supposed to light the first, second and fourth candles, which were purple, as the weeks of the Advent season progressed, and Mom was supposed to light the pink one on the third week. I'm not sure if we did that right, I just remember turning off the lights and eating by candlelight. That's when we had candles or a tree full of lights to make the house glow. I love that. That's Christmas to me.
Not much has changed.